ion of any problem it is always about the
question. In other words the question is not=D6What is the answer
to this problem, the question is=D6What is the question that will
resolve this problem?
To fully appreciate why this is true you must first understand
some of the basics of the subconscious. The first question in
regard to the subconscious is =ECDo you ask yourself questions?=EE
Yes. You begin the process of asking yourself questions as soon
as you get up every morning. You ask yourself questions
like=D6What do I need to do today, what am I going to wear, what
calls or emails do I need to return?
The next question is=D6Does the subconscious work on questions
when you are not consciously involved? Yes. If you have ever
asked yourself the question=D6What is that person’s name? It may
take an hour, a day or even a week but at a time when you are
not even thinking about it the person’s name will come popping
into your head. This is because the subconscious was working on
the question even when you were not consciously involved. This
process happens with every question you ask yourself.
Why is this important? It is important because the subconscious
has very little response to a statement but you will always
force your subconscious to move in a direction you wish if you
ask a question. Now that you understand the effect of a
question on the subconscious how much of a difference do you
think will be between these two questions=D6What is the answer to
this as opposed to=D6What is the question that will resolve this
problem?
If indeed you understand and agree that the subconscious does
work on questions when you are not consciously involved what
results do you think will be produced from these two questions?
The first question is ambiguous and the subconscious will treat
it as such. The second question will generate questions that
will lead you to a resolution to your problem.
As a Life Coach, Psychotherapist, Teacher or Counselor your
objective is to guide people through a resolution of their
problems. A significant number of these problems if not all
will involve a change in the emotional state and behavior of
your client. This leads us to the most fundamental question for
helping your clients resolve their problem and that is=D6What
determines human behavior? Can you be effective in helping your
client without first answering this question? Possibly you can
if you are a good at guessing because if you can not answer
this question that is all you will be able to do.
Once you have a clear definitive answer to this question you
can begin the process of empowering your clients and students
to move toward their goals and making the changes necessary to
achieve them.
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